Shame

• Q1 - I understand that it is a sin to discuss one's sin with a friend due to it showing a lack of shame. What if I am the one who hasn't committed the sin, and my friend is talking about matters that relates to his sin with me? How should I handle these conversations? Do I get sins also for indulging or contributing to this conversation although it might be displeasing to Allah? What is the ruling on having a conversation with someone and discussing actions or events that may have been displeasing and forbidden in the eyes of Allah ? Jazzakallah 

  A - One should not talk about their sins while boasting andbeing happy about it. Sometimes if we talk about them to seek counseling and help that is okay, but if this is not the reason, maybe you can gently direct your friend and remind him/her that he/sheshould talk to someone who can helplike a scholar or religious counselor. Try your best to give hope to your friend and change the subject when you can.

  
  
  

  MoulanaOnline Aalim Team